The Powers Behind Physical Disability
The
negative psychological effects of a physical disability are great. But
even greater are the positive, powerful responses by the persons who
have a physical disability or incur one after an accident or because of
a genetic or biological illness. And the example of these powers are
many.
The negative psychological
impact of having a physical disability include a range of responses.
Some move from sudden disillusionment to immediate denial. Others get
ensnared in a web of self-pity and self-punishment, going back and
forth between “Why me?” and “If only I had…” and “I should have been
more…” attitudes of self-reproach. Still others are understandably
angry, frustrated, confused, and depressed.
But
while some who suffer a physical disability will give in to the pain
and depression, many more take their power back, re-channel that power
into the typical gifts that are paradoxically inherent in people with
such challenges, and turn that power into not only self-empowerment but
empowerment of others.
SUPERMAN
Christopher Reeve is our most recent candidate for relentless pursuit
of the good hidden in the terrible. Known before a crippling accident
left him paralyzed with spinal cord damage as the Cornell graduate who
would star in time travel, space travel, and superhero travel across
our movie and TV screens in his buff, gorgeous hulking but gentle way,
Chris would in 1995 fall from a horse into a wheel chair that moved for
him, spoke for him, and even breathed for him. But he turned absolute
physical disability into art and science. He starred in a remake of
Hitchcock’s Rear Window, for example, playing (being) a
wheelchair-bound man who witnesses (outside his city apartment window)
a murder across the way, a murder he manages to divulge the details of
despite the risk. Reeve also directed a couple of films, but then
directed a masterpiece story based on what it is to be completely
paralyzed, by telling the story of a young paralysis victim. Further,
Reeve entrenched himself in advocating research to help such victims,
traveling the country to share the message about the need for
(controversial) stem cell and spinal injury research. He did all of
this in spite of being 98% paralyzed, able only to blink and speak and
chew, despite the risks of rejection and dissention, despite the risks
to his already challenged health. In fact, he continued to rise and
empower until his body failed completely, when on October , 2004, he
died from the physical disability he was not born with.
COSMIC MAN
Another man adamantly producing more than he is succumbing to his
physical disability is Stephen Hawking. With such a severely advanced
case of Lou Gherig’s Disease that he can only speak—and that only by
use of a computer—Stephen has gone from Oxford graduate to Lucasian
Professor of Mathematics and 12 + honorary seats in Physics. Despite
barely being able to physically move, he has proven the imperative to
unify General Relativity with Quantum Theory, has put detailed
evidentiary proof to Einstein’s General Theory of Relativity, and has
made real the characteristics and nature of black holes and Big Bang
speculative science.
POWER WOMEN INCLUDED
Men don’t have the corner on the market of power of mind overpowering a
physical disability. As far back as the 1800’s, for example, Harriet
Tubman carried the weight of narcolepsy on her shoulders, risking
exponentially more with such an illness when she orchestrated the
Underground Railroad to free hundreds of slaves to the north by guiding
them through safe passageways in the middle of the night. Harriet was
as cunning, as ruthless, and as determined an abolitionist and
resistance movement leader as was her sleeping disorder.
And
the list of power people with physical disabilities goes on, with Marla
Runyan (who runs Olympic marathons with Stargardt Disease), Tanni
Grey-Thompson (who wins Paralympic medals from her wheelchair), and
Helen Keller, Thomas Edison, and Ludwig Von Beethoven, who were blind,
deaf, and turned deaf, respectively.
This
is just the famous side. You probably know the girl next door who takes
care of kids, runs about chasing them down for dinner with her
prosthetic legs; the box next door who mows the lawn with one arm; the
everyman and everywoman who take over with brilliance where the
dullness of disability once attempted to. I think we should start a
list for them, too.
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